If you haven’t stumbled upon the amazing content creator, Melani Sanders, you must look her up. She was having a bad day and just decided to record her authentic voice. It resonated with so many in the clutches of perimenopause and menopause that she continued recording videos that she calls, “We Do Not Care”. It is the kind of message that makes you scream, “Amen”. It is a powerful movement that allows women to embrace where they are in their lives.
I think the beauty of aging is that women get to the point where we don’t care. I don’t care about cute underwear because I would rather have Granny pants that don’t creep up my ass crack. I don’t care if saying “no” annoys people. I don’t care about plans with people who have a one-sided agenda. I don’t care about plans if they are after 8 pm. Once my bra is off, it is not going back on unless it is an emergency. Even then, it might not happen. I don’t care that my body now resembles a hairless cat with wrinkles. I don’t care if people at a red light see me talking to myself. I have some good shit to say, and I need to hear it. I don’t care what it said behind my back. If you are talking about me, then I must be living rent-free in your head and I love that shit! I don’t care that I like my dogs better than most of the human race. I. DO. NOT. CARE. Wow, that felt AMAZING!
There is a freedom in letting go and being so transparent. Just living in my own truth. What do you no longer care about?
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