Of course, this is the time of year that illuminates the thoughts of gratitude, but what if that space expanded into an everyday practice? My theory is that the more I reside in gratitude, the more shimmers I experience. By shimmers, I mean those moments where you feel more aligned and in sync with life even with challenges.
I could have dropped kicked 2025 in January due to Brian having a major cardiac episode, but I didn’t. Instead, I focused on his amazing care, the support from friends and family, and of course, the fact he is still among us. That drop kicking might have intensified after the death of Brian’s dad or even when Bailey had emergency surgery, but it didn’t. I decided to shroud myself in a space of being thankful. Thankful that our family got to have that time with his dad before he passed away. Thankful that Bailey’s surgery was effortless and we were surrounded by lots of love and light. I could be annoyed/angry that we keep experiencing these difficult moments, but then I remind myself that this is life. There are moments of bliss sprinkled with moments of despair. It is up to me to shift my perception.
I think it is good reminder for the upcoming holiday season to allow everyone to be who they are. For me, there is a disconnect where politics are not aligned. I can love people where they are. My advice is to not talk about the orange elephant in the room and instead focus on the goodness that these humans offer. Life is too short to be weighted down with the thoughts or opinions of others.
In the darkest moments, there is ALWAYS something to be grateful for. You have choices on how to show up. Letting others be themselves frees you from the opinions, drama, and actions of others. Allowing others to be who they are, puts the power in your hands.
You are powerless to change them. For this season, bask in your own light and find the shimmers all around you.
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